There’s so many frustrations i have right now. I wish i could explain them all to make them understandable to anyone with a soul but it’s not always that easy. I know i’m not always right and my thoughts and feelings aren’t the best at times but i do think that i have an opinion that is sometimes the right one to have. Not always, and i’m willing to admit that. I am only human, which isn’t an excuse, just an explanation.
I just can’t begin to understand how manipulative people can be or how entirely fucked up their thought processes are. I mean for one thing going on in my life (indirectly but going on nonetheless), I really can’t comprehend why someone would use their kid as a way of getting what they want. I know i’m not telling the whole story and i really can’t but… damn it i just don’t get it!
I understand having bad blood with an ex. I don’t understand why you call that ex “babe” and a week later meet someone else and that someone else is all of a sudden the “love of your life”. Shouldn’t your kid come first? Shouldn’t you give the ex a chance to prove they’re a good parent? I mean you have admitted that they are so why are you gonna threaten to take away their child? Why would you do that?? For money? To be happy? But at what cost?
This has been consuming me for the last two months and I don’t know how much longer i can try and let it go. It doesn’t just affect my best friend, its affecting me too. I don’t know how much longer i can sit back and watch someone burn themselves to the ground before i attempt to help. I wish there was an east answer or a way to make them see the better side of this situation. But i cant. You can’t save someone from themselves..
please watch your language when you talk about children. they are not animals, they are not natural disasters, they are not evil little monsters, they’re just tiny people who are 100% dependent on the adults in their lives and i find it disturbing that people think it’s hilarious and cute to talk about how much they hate them